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ഡെങ്കി പനി വരുന്നതു തടയാൻ വെള്ളം തട്ടി മറിച്ചാൽ പോരാ . മറ്റു പ്രതിരോധ നടപടികൾ കൂടി സ്വീകരിക്കാൻ ഉണ്ട്. എല്ലാവരും അവ സ്വീകരിക്കുന്നതിനു വേണ്ട അവബോധ പ്രചാരണം നടത്തണം. കൊതുക് ശല്യം ഉള്ള ദേശങ്ങളിൽ (1). കൊതുകു വലക്കകത്ത് മാത്രം ഉറങ്ങുക / വിശ്രമിക്കുക (2) കൊതുകിനെ അകറ്റി നിർത്താൻ പുകയിടുക ,വാതിലുകളും ജനാലുകളും കതകുകൾ അടച്ചിടുകയോ ഉചിതമായ തരം വലകൾ ഉപയോഗിച്ച് അടക്കുകയോ ചെയ്യുക, താമസിക്കുന്ന പറമ്പത്തെ കുറ്റിക്കാടുകൾ നശിപ്പിക്കുക ( 3 ) ജോലി ചെയ്യുന്ന സമയത്ത് ശരീരം മുഴുവൻ മൂടുന്ന തരം വേഷം ധരിക്കുക (4) രാവിലെയും വൈകുന്നേരവും കൊതുക് ധാരാളമായി ഇറങ്ങുന്ന സമയം നമ്മൾ സംരക്ഷിത വേഷങ്ങളില്ലാതെ പുറത്തിറങ്ങുന്നത് ഒഴിവാക്കുക (5) കൊതുക് ബാറ്റ് വാങ്ങി വീടിനു പരിസരത്തും മുറികളിലും കാണപ്പെടുന്ന കൊതുകുകളെ നശിപ്പിക്കാൻ ഓരോരുത്തരും അരമണിക്കൂർ മാറ്റിവെക്കുക. Offense is the best form of defense.

10 BETTER RELATIONS WITH your son and his wife

0 Advices from a SC Judge who handled family dispute courts.

1.Don't encourage your son and his wife to stay under same roof with you. Best to suggest them to move out, even to the extent of renting a house.  It's their problem to find a separate home.
More the distance between you and your children's families, the better is the relationship with your in laws.

2.Treat your son's wife as his wife, not as your own daughter, maybe just treat her as a friend.  Your son would always be your Junior  but, if you think that his wife is of the same rank and if you ever scolded her, she would  remember it for life.
In real life, only her own mother and not u will be viewed as a person qualified to scold or correct her.

3.Whatever habits or characters your son's wife has is not your problem at all, it is your  son's problem. It isn't  your problem as he is an adult already.

4.Even when living together, make each others businesses clear, don't do their laundry, don't cook for them and don't baby sit their children. Unless, of course, there is a special request by your son's wife and you feel that you're capable and don't expect anything in return.
Most importantly, you shouldn't worry about your son's family problems. Let them settle themselves.

5.Pretend to be blind and deaf when your son and his wife are quarrelling.  It's normal that the young couple do not like their parents to b involved in the dispute between husband and wife.

6.Your grandchildren totally belong to your son and his wife. However they want to raise their children,  it is up to them.  The credit or blame would be on them.

7.Your son's wife need not necessarily  respect and serve you. It is the son's duty.  You should have taught your son to be a better person so that you and your son's wife relationship could be better.

8.Do more planning for your own retirement, don't rely on your children to take care of  your retirement. You had already walked through most of your journey in life, there are still a lot of new things to learn through out the journey.

9.It is your own interest that you enjoy your retirement years.  Better if you could utilise & enjoy everything that you had saved before you die.  Don't let your wealth become worthless to you.

10.Grandchildren don't belong to your family, they're their parents precious gift.

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